Taking a long walk toward peace: Victims memorial starts its path to New York City
By Laura Crimaldi
MetroWest Daily News Sunday, August 1, 2004

NATICK -- A community of strangers bound by an unwavering commitment to peace braved the blistering heat yesterday to herald a message of non-violence in a solemn "Stonewalk."

"Every step is a prayer for peace. Be careful," Sherborn Peace Abbey Director Lewis Randa told about 20 people as they stepped off Natick Town Common with a 2-ton memorial stone in tow. The walk, organized by September Eleventh Families for Peaceful Tomorrows, began in Boston on July 28 and will hit parts of Massachusetts, Rhode Island, and Connecticut before reaching its destination in New York City on Sept. 2.

The symbolic walk honoring unknown civilians killed in war will recast the Boston-to-New York City route from the terrifying final passage of the Sept. 11 hijackers who attacked the World Trade Center to a peaceful and reflective trail, organizers said. "Those planes left Boston and killed these people in New York City. Let's reclaim that route," said Daniel Jones, a Bronx resident who lost his brother-in-law Bill Kelly Jr. in the World Trade Center attack. A charter member of Peaceful Tomorrows, which represents more than 130 family members of 9/11 victims, Jones and his wife Colleen are fighting to prevent other families from suffering the pain of losing a loved one under attack. "We knew if we bombed Afghanistan, we would fail in our attempts to bring justice and we would kill other civilians and families would be suffering as we were," he said.

The group officially formed in February 2002 and held its first retreat at the Sherborn Peace Abbey last year, Jones said.
"We saw an outpouring of compassion and support because our losses were so public," said Jones, a school social worker. "We don't know the names of these people dying in other parts of the world, and if we did, I'd think we'd do a lot more to end the violence."

A black casing flanked by flags from every nation in the world surrounds the granite stone which reads "Unknown Civilians Killed In War."
A copy of "Portraits of Grief," the profiles of the Sept. 11 victims written by the New York Times staff, accompanied the memorial stone to highlight the public's intimate knowledge of those who perished during the attacks.

Volunteers wore T-shirts decorated with a picture of the memorial stone and a quote from the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr.: "Wars are poor chisels for carving out peaceful tomorrows." "I've always been interested in a way of non-violence -- my Catholic upbringing, applying the law of St. Francis...'We should be peacemakers on the Earth.' That's sort of what motivates me to do this," said Lisa Cogliandro of Ashland during a midday break on the Natick Town Common. Cogliandro was among 60 volunteers and supporters who participated in an informal ceremony of prayers and quiet reflections before the Stonewalk resumed its journey toward the Peace Abbey. The walk was intentionally scheduled to take place between the Democratic National Convention, which ended in Boston on Thursday, and the Republican National Convention in New York City, which begins at the end of the month.
"We have spent so much of the time reacting to the wars started by the Bush administration and this is a chance to get out and educate people," said Terry Rockefeller of Arlington. Rockefeller lost her sister Laura Rockefeller in the WTC attack. While on the walk this week and during the last leg of the journey at the end of the month, Rockefeller hopes to spread the word about establishing a federal Department of Peace and promoting "true" cultural change.

The walk makes its way to Holliston today before making stops in Milford, Hopedale, Mendon and Uxbridge on Monday and Tuesday.
"We really need to pay attention to this -- what war is about. There's a lot of propaganda around this," said Judith Rich of Natick.

Laura Crimaldi can be reached at 508-626-4416 or lcrimald@cnc.com.

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